Hello and Welcome! I’m Lacie!

My story is an all too familiar one. Heartache and pain led me to partake in a year of casual sex with younger men. After, I felt compelled, and divinely led to write the story of my lessons and transformation. Many might not believe I was divinely led, especially due to the sexual nature of my first two books, but there’s no doubt in my mind I was and still am. 

Intuition is Really God’s Nudge
Intuition is a feeling or sensation I had only experienced sporadically throughout my life. I used to believe it was random. Only recently have I realized it’s God’s nudge or his way of giving us a sense of knowing. I can think of some VERY …
Thank You For Being A Friend
We all know that friends come and go. When I think back to the friends I’ve parted ways with, I have no regrets and feel complete peace with my decision. Peace is the gauge I use to know if I’m making the right choice. Sometimes …
As You Level Up Your Social Media Feed Should Too
There’s no denying social media gets a bad rap, for VERY justifiable reasons. Its misuse can lead to a person feeling insecure, inadequate, jealous, depressed, and with a poor body image—among other possible negative side effects. The reality is, it’s not social media that’s the …
How I Plan to Successfully NOT Have Sex Before Marriage
When I made the conscious decision to not have sex again until I'm married, my first thought was, "How the fuck am I going to do that?" Like all things, I set about to make a plan and take action. I was hell bent on …
Can Faith and Sexuality Be Intermingled?
I’d take a bet that most people think faith and sexuality cannot be intermingled. It seems as if the message from the church has always been negative, as if sex is too taboo to talk about, even for married people. I disagree. When it comes …
Releasing Evolutional Shame
Evolutional shame is a heavy yoke to bear. It deters you from progressing to the next level of achievement in your life. I worked hard to let mine go. Let’s face it, nobody hovers at a higher level their whole life. If that was the …
The Price of A Woman’s Body
When I look back at my life, it's glaring how little I valued myself. Despite wanting my own needs met, I was essentially giving myself away for free. The big question I asked myself was: WHY? How many of you remember a time you’ve given …
Have You Ever Encountered Erectile Dysfunction?
Erectile dysfunction is so common that according to an article I read on Singlecare.com, 822 million men around the world are projected to have ED by the year 2025. Um, that's not too far in the future and that's a hell of a lot of …
Reciprocity
It is imperative that women take a more active role in their sexual encounters and demand reciprocity. After all, sex is meant to feel good and be satisfying for BOTH partners. Gone are the days where sex is all about the man and his pleasure. …
My Spiritual Journey: Part 1
My spiritual journey was not only transformational, but completely unexpected. I've always considered myself agnostic. No real belief in any higher power, but not 100% closed off either. Let’s face it, if a lot of people believe aliens exist, then why wouldn’t they believe in …
How I Opened Myself Up to Receive God’s Word
Opening myself up to receive God’s word was something I never thought I’d do. As a non-believer for most of my life, I never dreamed my path would lead to God. Like any transformation, it was messy, painful, confusing, and bewildering. In hindsight, I took …
Generational Evolution
Let’s face it, evolution across the generations is glaring in this day and age. The Baby Boomers (my parents generation), grew up without open discussions of mental health nor self-improvement. Many continued living in traditional roles like their parents. The woman mostly takes care of …
Craving Alone Time
Do you enjoy being alone? Or do you prefer to surround yourself with your people most of the time? I believe being alone portrays the abundance of self-love and comfort with yourself. Not to mention the feeling of wholeness when you don’t have an inner …
How To Avoid The Sexless Marriage
Sex is the act that bonds. It is not only a physical union, but also a chemical bond when oxytocin is released during orgasm. Oxytocin is the same drug that bonds newborns to their moms during childbirth and breastfeeding, so it’s no wonder the difficulties …
The Greatest Betrayal
I lost 5 years of my life being defined by my divorce. There wasn't a person (or stranger for that matter) who didn't know my story. My best friend, the maid of honor in my wedding, married my ex-husband. I’ve done  A LOT of healing …
If You Fake It You Will Never Make It
Have you ever said, “Wow! That was great!” as you slapped his ass? And, you were lying through your teeth. You’d memorized the patterns on the ceiling, mentally redecorated your room, and planned a friend’s birthday party. Because, YES, the sex really was that bad!  …
Sex & Sensuality
My sexuality aged like a fine wine. Despite having sexual desires in my twenties, I failed to fully act on them until my mid-forties when my appetite was voracious. When I think back to the few sexual encounters I had in my twenties, only one …
Liberate Female Sexuality
Click on the picture to get your copy Female sexuality has been shrouded in judgement since the beginning of time. Did men honestly think women would keep their needs hidden in the shadows, forever?  Let’s face it, as long as we’ve had vaginas, we’ve had …
Confidence Is Alluring
I'm sure you may have heard people say, “Confidence attracts men”. Well, I learned first-hand that confidence is the number one trait in a woman that attracts men. I also realized confidence can push a person to do things they wouldn’t otherwise do, which can …